THRILL

I don't want her to drive again. kind of fobia and trauma for me. She was very fast and due to that she failed to see the RED traffic light!(Near Badaruddin)There was another wira coming from the other side.. BANG!!! our car (not mine ) swung not less than two times.It was a very tragic moment and at the same time i was thinking of my solat isyak :)

Somehow, we felt that there was an angel holding our car so it landed smoothly at the side of the road. Thank god. Not even a scratch . only a shock maybe. i was kind of trembling but still able to explain the situation especially to the man who hit our car.

He is a chinese man . The gentleman one. Thank god huh..... The policemen were also gentle and soft spoken .The advantage of being a woman maybe.

The rest of the story i leave it to your imagination ......:) Oh by the way , my friend also fine ..she only hurt her head..externally. ( no bleeding) maybe she hit the glass (window) . but the doctor (Brain specialist at Timberland) confirmed it as external injury,nothing more .

One thing i remember most is while we were still in the car after the tragic swinging moment , my friend said ..."It was thrill hoh"....yala good girls like us seldom involve in bad situation bah ...

p/s: to all my family members and friends, do not tell my mom ...

Life must go on

Ironically, we can share our deepest feeling with our friends and yet not confront them when things go wrong. It has been more than one month we didn't speak and the best part is i am not sure why.Confrontations work best when both parties are open to what is being said .I teach my HR students about confrontation but myself has difficulties in dealing with it .sigh ...

Friendship is a difficult thing. Her ego as vast as the oceans and anything i say can and will be used against me. Should i simply choose to end it and get on with my life ? One of my friends urged me to ignore her and get on with my life . He/she (pondan ..hehe) said that kinda friend is not worth it .He /she said ..'orang macam ya.............' .hmm...Maybe he/she is right .Intuitively, i know i should not be her good friend at the first place . Somehow,this situation kinda hurt my feeling.

It is life though. We just need to swallow it and move on. Life must go on.