Ironically, we can share our deepest feeling with our friends and yet not confront them when things go wrong. It has been more than one month we didn't speak and the best part is i am not sure why.Confrontations work best when both parties are open to what is being said .I teach my HR students about confrontation but myself has difficulties in dealing with it .sigh ...
Friendship is a difficult thing. Her ego as vast as the oceans and anything i say can and will be used against me. Should i simply choose to end it and get on with my life ? One of my friends urged me to ignore her and get on with my life . He/she (pondan ..hehe) said that kinda friend is not worth it .He /she said ..'orang macam ya.............' .hmm...Maybe he/she is right .Intuitively, i know i should not be her good friend at the first place . Somehow,this situation kinda hurt my feeling.
It is life though. We just need to swallow it and move on. Life must go on.
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...salamz su...1st off all, su, blh kmk request ktk tukar colour font vs background ya..suma in pink...sik lamak mun makin panjang k baca, alu juling la kmk tok lak su... hehe..
su...biar kan ajak kawan cam ya...sik kita berkudis tam daknya ya...gikpun, bkn daknya berik kita rm kan? sik pa su...tol lah ya...life must go on...
caiyok! caiyok! su...:p
hehe...tukar background?Insya Allah ...try to do it in a short time...
mmg yah...nothing much we can do ... telan dan hadapi hidup dgn tenang .....hehe
yep... life must go on. don't hurt ourselves too much for the sake of something that doesn't worth it.
As your big sister,I hate confrontations of any forms, that's why I'm always being taken for granted and used by people closest to me. Just feel like telling them off but then I thought I cannot be that judgmental or cruel coz we too may have our own character flaws.If you cannot stand her, then just ignore her.Its your life so you should live by it.
Errr...pondan lebih sensitif?
sumuk: Thanks...*wink*
Kak midah: ok sis :)
Willie: highly educated pondan :)
confrontations? hmmm... id normally walk away or stare blankly and keep quiet. Makin banyak kelakar, makin menjadi nak. But i believe that in a friendship, u cant help but push and pull when you need to. Save the friendship or save ur pride, take ur pick...
one other...
Strong feeling that this friendship is kinda worthless...i think i have move on ...Today's lunch hour i am going to The Spring with my other girlfriendssssss....and i drive.If you are happen to meet me there ..i am wearing black kebaya ...hehe
OOh... that was you??? among your other lovelies? checking out the Bonia handbags at Parkson? Hahah... how cud i missed you! I was the one opening the door for u dear, the one with the shiny uniform and gloomy expression. Hehe *kidding*
One Other...
hehe.. a good one though..
last friday i tried to find you dear ..the one with nice and pretty feet..
hahah... u know i cant very well walk all over Spring without shoes on... people will think im crazy!
hehe.. a seksi and transparent shoes dear ...sure attracts many guys at the spring ...ahaks...especially non muslim sbb yg muslim g semayang jumaat ...:)
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