Discommunication between men and women

The discommunications occur maybe because of men and women has different emotional needs. Women usually complain about problems because they want their problems to be acknowledged, while men complain about problems because they are asking for solutions. One of my good friends told me that when we want to talk to this human from mars we need to be well prepared with all the facts and theories to support our ideas or opinions. hehe .sounds complicated to me. But , i don't think i am in a right position to discuss this matter in details due to lack of experiences and the fact that i am still single.Nevertheless, as an academician, i do believe that conflict usually occur due to lack of communication.