my gerek

hehe ... i was at jom heboh yesterday and met my boyfriend ...

Actor in "Nur Kasih (TV3)"

Very macho rite ...tall dark and handsome ...nice ,polite and smart .... he is so perfect ...i wish i could've him as soulmate ...hehe ...

Tapi sekali pandang mcm John Abraham (currently the most handsome guy on earth) ... 2 kali pandang macam ******! especially when he brings the white towel around ...huh...

ok , above is Dafi in Spa Q 2 ...he was so damn sporting and nice... (comel huh...)

and of course my type of guy is the first one...without the towel....hehehe...

Wang Hantaran Kahwin

Nurenjel took the Berapa nilai hantaran kahwin anda? quiz and the result is RM 48,000-00
ANDA MEMANG SEORANG WANITA YANG HEBAT. semua lelaki angau nak kawen dengan anda. anda mempunyai ciri-ciri yang diidamkan lelaki secara general. bakal suami anda sanggup berbelanja besar untuk kawen dgn anda kerana takut anda terlepas ke tangan orang lain. tetapi anda tidak sombong dan angkuh dengan kelebihan yang ada pada anda.

This is totally insane ...

tho i am graduated from overseas ....believe me, it will not be that high ...hehe

around RM 10, 000 maybe la...but with our global economic condition ...i should be more considerate towards my future husband ...by the way , jodoh di tangan tuhan ....ekekeke...just for fun guys ...tension ku di office tuk ...stress.....nasib baik ada quiz FB :)

Malam Jalan Mertua

Diadakan pada hari ke 3 perkahwinan dan selalunya sebelah malam .Pengantin perempuan akan dibawa oleh Pengantin lelaki pergi ke rumahnya untuk berjumpa ibu bapa dan saudara mara.

pelamin kecil




pengantin baru

Adat istiadat





anak buah -anak buah

Bergambar selepas majlis selesai

The Wedding (Part 2)

"Majlis akad nikah" was on Friday evening after Friday prayer ..we went to the bride's house for the very important ceremony of the wedding .

"Majlis resepsi" was on Saturday at Dewan Suarah , Sibu

"Majlis Jalan rumah Mertua" was on Sunday at my second sister's house in Jalan Permai, Sibu...

Make up session ...I also had my make up in the same room ..of course by myself (siapa la nak hias i..hehe)

Few moments before " Akad Nikah "...he was nervous

The Crowd

On behalf of our family ..speech given by my big Brother ...Udin Bujang

The arrival of "Raja Sehari"

"Selamat Pengantin Baru"

The presents

The Wedding

I was in Sibu for the wedding ...of course not mine but my beloved nephew. :) i would like to show you some of the wedding pictures....

Pelamin at Dewan Suarah , Sibu




My beloved grandson and grand daughter



My nephew during the akad nikah





The beautiful Bride





Posing with my eldest sister ,Mdm Grace and Serenity





Family Reunion

i just came back from Sibu tho and face my normal routine again starting tomorrow (Tuesday)...will try to upload some more pictures within this week or next week depending on my workload of course ....The ceremony was great and im glad i could meet with all my family members especially my nieces, nephews, grandson and grand daughter ...

Jai Ho ( My Destiny )

New Semester Begin

well, i will not be this free anymore ... my May Semester classes will be like Monday until Friday ...well, except for Thursday ...Thursday is the day that any of my students can come for consultation because i will be like off - class that day ...hehe...

Students coming for May semester registration

Sitting down with a pink tie is a President for Majlis Perwakilan Pelajar (MPM) and a girl standing with black baju kurung and a little grin on her face is our 'olahragawati'. She is very active in sports.

We've this May semester registration for current students today starting from 8.30am - 5.00pm. My turn for duty is at 2pm until 5.00 pm .. Classes will start on this coming Wednesday ...I expect myself to be a little bit busy this semester due to the fact that this May semester is actually a short semester ...Meaning to say , i need to cover at least 2 chapters in a week instead of one...sigh ...but nevermind i think im quite used to it ..

salah faham ...

It's all very well to lay the blame on our friend/partner for things going wrong .But actually, it takes two.

When it comes to relationships most of us run into the same glitches....

* lack of communication-often leads to misunderstanding huh ....

* being selfish ( i hate those)

* expecting too much too soon (for guys) hehe...

Before we put the blame on others, it is better for us to check ourselves first or find out the root of the problems and save the relationship...

norell

my friends are no longer calling me by my real name ...they call me norell or enjel ..huhu...and i don't mind it too ...(malas nak tuyak gilak) just let them be as insane as they want them to be...

Happy Belated Teachers' day ...

I know im late but i would like to express my highest appreciation to all my teachers and lecturers and wishing them happy teacher's day ...

Thank you to all my teachers ,lecturers and educators at :

*SRK Abang Ali , Sibu,Sarawak

*SMB Saint Elizabeth, Sibu, Sarawak

*SMB Sacred Heart,Sibu , Sarawak ( Form 6 - less than a month)

*Mara Language Academy (MLA), Kuala Lumpur

*Yayasan Pelajaran Mara ,Trolak , Perak

*University of Newcastle , Australia

and of course , to myself ...* wink*

Especially to my big sister , Fauziah binti Bujang , i'd believe u are my first teacher and educator of all .... Thank You sis .I still remember on how you tried to teach me to spell the word 'KERUSI' correctly ...and i was so dull to spell it ' KURSI ' repetitively ...huhu ...

Thank You to all of you and May God Bless You always ...:)

Orang gaji Melampau

Heartless and Brainless maid

Outrageous behaviour of maid ...so cruel and insane..

my youngest niece : anis zahra

Nur Anis Zahra

i miss her lately ...hehe..

i called my sister to speak to her ...unfortunately , my sister replied something like this :" Sekda nya ya pandei kelakar ..." huhu ..

as far as i know , anis can answer well if we call her name..she will loudly say "pa" as in "apa...." but i'd think that's the only word she knows for now.

Many people comment she looks exactly like me ...hehe..i think the personality is also more or less the same ...quiet type.... . unless i know that person very well, i seldom talk much ...

Second thing we have in common is anis likes food...she loves to eat ....hehe..For me, food is extremely irresistible.Thanks to god my weight is still below 55kg.

i feel blessed to have loveable nieces and nephews... i'd think i love them all no matter what ...

Falling.....

Don't fall for someone unless they're willing to catch you ....

hehe.....

Snap out of it

I don't know what's happening to me lately ...

I am feeling depressed ...

How can i help myself snap out of it ....

There is something that keep bothering me but im not sure myself what it is ...


My friend once asked me a very simple question:what will you do to make yourself happy ....? Sadly, there was a long silent coming from me................:(

Hari Ibu :: 10 May 2009

I heard this song a while ago in my car ... i felt so sad ...

Duhai apakah gerangan budi balasan ....

bagi Insan melahirkan membesarkan ....

Tiada Bahgia jika tiada doa puja restu...

Surga itu di telapak kakinya ibu .....

Song by Aishah

*Untuk Mak, Segala kebaikan , kemuliaan dan ketenangan dunia dan akhirat ...amin...*

nice guy vs bad guy

ya. i know im addicted to FB quizzes ...haha... just look at below guys ..i thought i like nice and calm guy ...i don't think im into bad boys...

Girl, you need a bad boy... Someone that will make you wait on him... that's the only way boys hold your interest. Guys that give you everything you want will only bore you, and next thing you know you'll be looking for someone new. You need a challenge, so stop breaking those sweet boys hearts. Date a player, and who knows, maybe you'll be the first girl he's ever fallen for.

But 98% of the result above is true tho .... hehe..

Bitch

I completed this quiz in the facebook regarding am i a bitch?

My Result: when they deserve it bitch

You will only slag ur mates off when there's been a personal attack on u ur more likely to confront them urself in civil manner tho....


i don't think that i am an outspoken person ... i'd rather keep things to myself ...unless mun benar-benar mencabar ..i will tell/talk somehow...

i did that recently ..alu kecik ati org ya ...but who cares ...she started it first .

exam blues....exam blues....

well, me and three of my friends were invigilating this semester final exam .i invigilated one paper today which was Law and Society . It was 3 hours exam and my feeling was like ...err...only god knows....:)

tense faces

standing at the back was one of the invigilators...(buncit tetap nampak walaupun jauh ..hehe)

The invigilator with a big grin on her face




so silent .....

Down under memories

Not really sure what to blog about ..just like to share the above picture that i took from my facebook posted by my ex-senior . I wore green dress looking so shy in my tudung (standing in the middle) hehe.We were all Malaysian + Newcastlian@Australia. I was in Australia some time ago futhering my studies in accountancy and economics. we had this gathering and took picture in front of my house after that .It was summer time and i was with my Malaysian senior and junior .This pic is so full of memories....

sweet relief

I will be going to my hometown, Sibu tomorrow for my late father Majlis Tahlil. I'll be driving on my own ..normally for me, it will be 5 hours journey ...well, i am quite used to driving alone from Kuching to Sibu and vice versa. hehe. ya , i know , some of my friends say i am too independent huh...? and brave. My other siblings ...i think all of them will be there too including my sis Mdm Hammy and also Mr Titian damai (my big brother).


I was very focus on my job as to ensure fairness and accuracy in giving and allocating my students' marks. Some of them received a very low grade due to plagiarism . I was very piss off with them because during my time , there was no word of plagiarism in my life dictionary as a student. I was very clean and honest in performing my assignments and tests and now i expect my students to perform the same way.hehe ...

Assignments, Tests and Final Exams

When i was a university student, my world was about assignments, test and final exams.

struggling and a little bit of crying,thank god i did it . Life is just wonderful isn't?

Now,as an academician , i am the one who is busy giving and allocating marks/grade to my students. Thus , i need to slow down blogging activities and pay attention to my students as the final exam is only in one month time.

So, i hope you guys will understand if i keep quiet and stop giving comment in your blog and also stop my own new entry.Happy blogging to all of you.

nurenjel is temporarily in a silent mode ...hehe

REVENGE IS SWEET

by Matt Pyke



Hurt so many times,
But never truly healed,
No you cannot see them,
My emotional scars are sealed,



i’ve kept it in for so long,
So much anger never let out,
Struggled with every tantrum,
Suppressing the urge to shout,



But the turning point is now,
You will not be my demise,
I will uplift my spirit,
And spring to your surprise,

No longer will you hurt me,
No more pain will I feel,
This day will end my sorrows,
And break that holy seal,


My emotions will flow with hatred,
And death you will meet,
Through this day of reckoning I have realized,
Revenge through success is sweet.

It is written

After watching an academy award winning movie, Slumdog Millionaire, for three times since last week, i really into this term 'it is written'.


if something bad happened in our life such as accident...was it written ..? or was it due to our carelessness ....or was it both ?







i cherish god for giving me the happiness in life...i know some people might think i don't deserve it .....but then again , i guess..........it is written.

change

Many years ago, when i was still a young girl and just graduated, i might choose love..

Now, i am not sure...

THRILL

I don't want her to drive again. kind of fobia and trauma for me. She was very fast and due to that she failed to see the RED traffic light!(Near Badaruddin)There was another wira coming from the other side.. BANG!!! our car (not mine ) swung not less than two times.It was a very tragic moment and at the same time i was thinking of my solat isyak :)

Somehow, we felt that there was an angel holding our car so it landed smoothly at the side of the road. Thank god. Not even a scratch . only a shock maybe. i was kind of trembling but still able to explain the situation especially to the man who hit our car.

He is a chinese man . The gentleman one. Thank god huh..... The policemen were also gentle and soft spoken .The advantage of being a woman maybe.

The rest of the story i leave it to your imagination ......:) Oh by the way , my friend also fine ..she only hurt her head..externally. ( no bleeding) maybe she hit the glass (window) . but the doctor (Brain specialist at Timberland) confirmed it as external injury,nothing more .

One thing i remember most is while we were still in the car after the tragic swinging moment , my friend said ..."It was thrill hoh"....yala good girls like us seldom involve in bad situation bah ...

p/s: to all my family members and friends, do not tell my mom ...

sharing

Got this info from a guy guide section in one of my favourite magazines ( Just for the sake of fun, nothing more) :)

5 foolproof signs he likes you

1. He bumps into you ...a lot : he's conspiring with the universe to see you again and again.

2. He goes out his way for you : Grab any opportunity to spend time with you .

3. He does the unnecessary:Find ways of letting you into his world.

4. He avoids talking directly to you in a group: He'll talk to everyone but you.

5. Your best friends are convinced he's into you .


Personally , i strongly doubt no.4 and 5. ...and not sure about no 1-3. For me , if it's too complicated , he is just not that into you .

It's all about me

............actually, it isn't

A lot of us seem to forget that any relationship are all about GIVE AND TAKE.

Expecting your friend/partner to meet all your needs, but not being prepared to meet any of hers/his, is selfish.

Selfishness is nothing else but a STINGY way to receive without giving. TAKE and TAKE and TAKE.

A wedding

Looking forward for my nephew's wedding this coming June, i found myself looking for something nice and elegant to wear on his big day . Can't believe that this boy is going to cut my line by getting married first .hehe. I think he is only 24-25 years old but he looks like he's 30 ( hehe..sorry Jedy, just kidding, glad that you've found your soulmate).The possiblity to have another grandchild next year is quite high i guess. can't wait for that to happen ...

By the way, i would like to show you some nice kebaya

I really can save my budget by wearing the one above because its already in my wardrobe right now but mine is in black colour with pink floral. Quite stunning i guess ( hehe...perasan )



or i can find something like below




With the second one , people probably say " sapa yg nak nikah tuk? is it you ?"


or , the third one below is quite common but still look nice:



hmm ...don't really know what to wear ...i just know that i need to come to his wedding and congratulate him... When is my own big day oo? ya lagik la pecah palak pikir baju....:P

Tagging!

Apa nak kei tulis ku tok ....

1. Malas sama seperti sumuk.
2. Aku pun Motto berusaha masa belajar dolok dah sekda agik waktu kerja tok ..hehe
3. suka makan sayur cangkuk manis ..haha
4. suka makan laksa nak nyaman ..sik nyaman sik suka.
5. Orang madah aku ngaler rambut tapi sik pernah dlm hidup ..nya nang kaler hazel kedak ya ..giney la.
6. Ada 5 kakak sorang abang .
7. Koala adalah binatang paling malas.
8. masa aku belajar dolok selalu nangga koala tidur ajak kerja.
9. sik pat lari dari warna pink .
10. Mun lapar cepat manas (bahaya) sbb ya ku sik mok lapar ..haha
11. apa gik oo..blank dah ku tok..hmm sik suka org laki eksen dan nok poyo poyo ya nang out
12. Percayak dgn doa (prayer)
13. Suka keanu Reeves .
14. Sik pandei pakei seksi . Mun seksi pun sik menjolok mata hehe
15. Mimpi lelaki monster warna kuning masa kecik sampei kinek tuk pun masih teringat . sik tauk kenak .
16.kadang2 aku rasa aku ada mimpi syurga.
17.bila la nak sampei no. 25 tok ... student ku semua bait2 ..dengar kata aku
18. aku sik suka jadi penumpang ..ku suka driving
19. aku dolok sekolah , sekolah perempuan ..haha
20. suka kehijauan
21. sik suka bersoal jawab (bertekak)
22. sebab ya aku banyak mengalah kali . tapi hati ku sakit .sigh...
23. aku suka masak sup ayam .ya jak yang ku expert masak haha(belajar ngan sumuk lok)
24. aku rasa sport bowling ..sport buang duit ..tikam2 tapi masuk parit :)
25. Finally , aku masih keluar ngan kawan sama sekolah (dari form 1) .Thank God. susah nak ada kawan sejati masa kerja. some of them ada hidden agenda ( my opinion only)


Dah One Other . DONE! Berperah juak otak i ..hehe..

The One and Only

If I could have just one wish,
I would wish to wake up everyday
to the sound of your breath on my neck,
the warmth of your lips on my cheek,
the touch of your fingers on my skin,
and the feel of your heart beating with mine...
Knowing that I could never find that feeling
with anyone other than you.


- Courtney Kuchta -

My Grandson .. huhu ..(im not that old ok)

After years of lecturing , i kinda transform myself into notes and slides which everything is already in my head.Hence, sometime, i do have plenty of time to relax , socializing and blogging :)


My friend once asked : Where is your notes dear?

Me : I am the notes!!


Hehe..today is one of those days where i can take a little bit of my working time (hehe) to express my excitement that my very own grandson will be in Kuching this evening! huhu . Here is the picture of future heart breaker :

AMIRUL ABBAS is my nephew's son. His father is only two years younger than me . His immediate grandma is my Second Sister after Mdm Grace. By the way ,i am not that old ok everyone..:) hehe ..just that my second sister got married at the age of.. 15 - 16 years old.Even her eldest daughter is 2 years older than me. haha ...weird huh ...:) but then again , it is life. To tell you the truth ..while i was a child, i was kinda confused about this bloodline relationship. hahaha...but i managed to figure it out when i was in primary 5!


By the way , i am so excited to see abbas today ...Can't wait to see him and can't wait to hold my very own grandson .

The Sweetest Thing !

Wishing all the bloggers in advance ...Happy Valentine's Day !

sexual harrassment

Do not cross the line loser!!

Sexual harrassment has the purpose or effect of substantially interfering with an individual's work performance or creating an intimidating, offensive work environment. Yes, exactly. To put it simple...we feel very uneasy and uncomfortable to work with him around or in the office . Kind of 'fobia'?

Any employee who engages in harassment or sexual harassment will be subject to disciplinary action, up to and including discharge. One of my male colleagues has the attitude to stare lasciviously at young women . ok ...i know staring is normal for a normal guy but he is more than just doing the normal stuff like for example, touching and brushing up against young women in the workplace to be specific . ya..ya.. you can say that ...yes, including me .sigh ...

Several times he cornered me and touched my body ( luckily not on the sensitive areas ). I went straight to my big boss office (Directors' room) and told them the incidents . They were shocked! oh boy ....this is serious ...they sighed.My bosses promised me to warn him immediately .hehe ..am i cruel?..i don't think so . (sapa nyuruh nya!).

Actually, it really depends on how the victim feels about the incident . If she is ok with it then we can call the sexual harrassment off. But for me , anything but touching .

Life must go on

Ironically, we can share our deepest feeling with our friends and yet not confront them when things go wrong. It has been more than one month we didn't speak and the best part is i am not sure why.Confrontations work best when both parties are open to what is being said .I teach my HR students about confrontation but myself has difficulties in dealing with it .sigh ...

Friendship is a difficult thing. Her ego as vast as the oceans and anything i say can and will be used against me. Should i simply choose to end it and get on with my life ? One of my friends urged me to ignore her and get on with my life . He/she (pondan ..hehe) said that kinda friend is not worth it .He /she said ..'orang macam ya.............' .hmm...Maybe he/she is right .Intuitively, i know i should not be her good friend at the first place . Somehow,this situation kinda hurt my feeling.

It is life though. We just need to swallow it and move on. Life must go on.

Silently ...

• Silently Sad...

  

Intimacy conflict

Believe it or not as a normal human beings we have two main desires that seem to be at odds with each other.

On the one hand, we want to be in a relationship, to feel we belong, to give and receive love. On the other, we want to be free, autonomous (hehe..) and not overly controlled by another.

As a conclusion, we want both togetherness and separateness,closeness and distances...hmm...typical huh....

But , each desire has its disadvantages.In a relationship, we can be hurt and are responsible to one another- we lose our separateness.But , if you want separateness, you have to pay the price- loneliness.

People keep on asking me.." bila lagik???" hehe.personally , i just leave this to God. I know one thing for sure that as the youngest daughter/sis, I love freedom and afraid of being hurt . Well, God knows best.

Discommunication between men and women

The discommunications occur maybe because of men and women has different emotional needs. Women usually complain about problems because they want their problems to be acknowledged, while men complain about problems because they are asking for solutions. One of my good friends told me that when we want to talk to this human from mars we need to be well prepared with all the facts and theories to support our ideas or opinions. hehe .sounds complicated to me. But , i don't think i am in a right position to discuss this matter in details due to lack of experiences and the fact that i am still single.Nevertheless, as an academician, i do believe that conflict usually occur due to lack of communication.

Alhamdulilah

Unexpectedly , today i managed to create my own blog , alhamdulilah .Inspired by my eldest sister , Madam Grace and Serenity,hopefully this blog can be a medium to spread and share ideas, knowledge and life experiences. I would like to welcome myself to this fun world of cyber. Thank you for viewing my blog .